Monday, December 3, 2007
Blanton ODB
Texas Natural Science Center
The first exhibit that stood out to me was the Texas Pterosaur, the largest flying creature ever discovered. It was found in 1971 by Doug Lawson and lived in what is now the Big Bend National Park in West Texas about 65 million years ago. The Texas Pterosaur’s wingspan was about 40 feet. The discovery of the Texas Pterosaur is one of the most famous finding in the history of paleontology. The findings of the Texas Pterosaur show how the creature was a prominent figure in Texas back in history. I believe this defines what it is to be a Texan. Speaking for myself, I hope to be a prominent figure who influences others and has a successful life. I believe this is a common ideal throughout our great state of Texas.
There was another exhibit about Texas Critters, things that exist in our everyday lives. There are about 30,000 species of insects in Texas including beetles, butterflies, and moths. The majority of these insect species is harmless and forms a natural part of our environment. The insects are the most diverse terrestrial animals on Earth. Insects are also very multifunctional. They pollinate crops, produce honey and many other important substances, serve as laboratory animals, and teach us many things about our environment. I also visited an exhibit on the fourth floor of the science museum that focused on the variety of fish species that exist in Texas. Different fish types lived in West Texas, Central Texas, East Texas, and the Gulf Coast. The wide array of types and roles of insects and fish illustrates another important aspect of what it means to me to be a Texan. Texas has a huge population and a wide variety of diversity. Texans also perform a wide variety of jobs that help our society continue to thrive.
On the fourth floor of the science museum, there were many exhibits that displayed many other creatures in Texas. For instance, Ringtails are close relatives of the raccoon and are excellent climbers due to the fact that their hind feet can be rotated outward 180 degrees. The Muskrat is a large aquatic rodent with partially webbed hind feet. They live in marshy areas where they build dome-shaped houses out of vegetation. Raccoons are other creatures prominent in Texas that live statewide, especially in wooded areas near water. Raccoons spend their time in their dens, made in a variety of places. Northern River Otter s are sociable carnivores that inhabit aquatic habitats in the pine forests of East Texas and coastal prairies and marshes. They hunt along river banks or underwater at night for fish, crayfish, mollusks, amphibians, and other small animals. All these animals have specific characteristics and utilize their characteristics to do the best they can in society. They use their characteristics to succeed in what they are best at and to find food to survive. This determination and creativity is another factor that makes up what it means to be a Texan and a leader. In order to succeed as individuals in Texas, we need to make the best of the resources given to us. We must have the determination and creativity to accomplish what we want with the limited resources we have. This is a process leaders must partake in as well.
In conclusion, I learned many things during our visit to the Texas Natural Science Center. Not only was I able to learn about the history of creatures in our state, but many things about these creatures that demonstrate what it means to be a Texan and a leader in the lone star state.
*first picture: the Texas Pterosaur, Texas Natural Science Center
*second picture: variety of insects in Texas, Texas Natural Science Center
*third picture: exhibit on the fish in Texas, Texas Natural Science Center
*fourth picture: Halls of Texas Wildlife fourth floor, Texas Natural Science Center
Friday, November 23, 2007
Unity
Wednesday, November 14, 2007
Question of Color
When the topic of racism comes up, we automatically think of prejudice across races; however, very rarely do we see the effects of internalized racism within races. During the event, we first watched a film called “A Question of Color” that demonstrated these view points. The movie began with a woman who felt judged by the guy she was dating. He wouldn’t take her to meet his mother because she was too dark-skinned. This made her feel lousy. Racism is something that needs to be addressed because it affects the way we see our community as well as how we relate to each other. The video stated that every black person is at one time challenged about their color. There is much tension sometimes between light skinned blacks and darker skinned blacks. Also, it was brought up that many people say they don’t have any problem with color, but things creep into their conversations and actions.
Tuskegee University is a prominently black college, and Booker T. Washington was its first president. Throughout the history of this university, there were mainly light skinned presidents that led the college. When a well qualified man became the first dark skinned president, there was a public outcry. As the movie states, “People wanted tall, light, and handsome instead of tall, dark, and qualified.” Many blacks feel they need to not only overcome white discrimination but color and class discrimination in the black community as well. In the black community, the wealthiest families tended to be light skinned rather than dark skinned. We see a problem when people feel they are not good enough to succeed and not good enough for others’ standards because the way they are born.
One instance in which we can see the discrimination within the black community is with two friends, one light skinned, the other dark skinned. People around them prefer the light skinned friend more because of his lighter skin and better hair texture. These friends both see the effects but do not talk about discrimination with each other. They feel they are friends for who they are, not because of their color. When a racial comment is made in a conversation, many people go along with the comment and laugh because they don’t want to stick out, even if they disagree with the racism.
In the movie, many newspaper ads were shown that advertised ways to have lighter skin. It is amazing to see what lengths people will go to change their appearance to feel like they fit in. Many women feel there are many conflicts between black women of different skin color because of the competition of beauty. Some blacks feel discriminated against because they feel others think they are not supposed to excel and not supposed to have anything. One woman of lighter black skin catches discrimination from the black community. People ask her where she is from and tell her she can’t be black because she looks too much like a white person. Many lighter blacks feel this same way that they get hostility from the black community.
In 1977, another incident of racism within the black community occurred. Essence, a black magazine, called a mother and daughter to be on the cover. The mother was dark skinned while the daughter was light skinned and looked more white. Many readers were angry and asked the publishers why they were putting a white woman on the cover of a black magazine. The name “skillet blond” is used to call people who are very dark and have very strong African American features. Many children in the black community get the impression they are bad kids because they are told they have bad hair, bad lips, and a bad nose. These people felt many things inhibited them, told them they weren’t beautiful. The environment you grow up in has a great effect on who you become.
Some of these people who are taught to hate their appearance will do things to try to change their appearance. Black women try to look like white women because they too want to be seen as beautiful. The movie explained how many people have had cosmetic surgery to look more like the white European image. Blacks were having surgery to change the appearance of their nose, and some Asians were having surgery on the shape of their eyes. The 1960s was touched by a movement known as the Black Consciousness Movement, which rocked old traditions and prejudices of racism. This was a movement encouraging people to embrace their past rather than deny it. The 1960s was an exciting time for blacks. One step is the first black reporter appeared on the news. She wanted to wear her natural hair but was taken off the air because she refused to straighten her hair. After a public outcry, however, she was reinstated. Another example of internalized racism is that light skinned blacks felt they had to prove themselves worthy to go into the black student union. While we have made great steps away from racism, many contradictions still linger. For example, many rappers are seen singing to light skinned women with good hair.
Racism has taught many blacks to be ashamed of how they look. The movie declares it necessary to honestly and openly discuss color consciousness in an effort to overcome shame and heal ourselves as a community. While this movie focused on the black community, internalized racism extends to all color communities, and this is an issue that needs to be addressed and corrected.
After watching the movie, there was an open discussion among the large group. Many different perspectives were shared. One young man shared that he identified with trying to prove yourself as light skinned because he was part of a light skinned family in a predominantly dark skinned community. Another topic that was brought up is how people feel more comfortable with people that look like them. This is one reason why some companies are less diverse. People want people who will fit in and allow the company to continue operating efficiently. One girl in the meeting explained how she felt her natural hair was not accepted among those around her. There is another movie called “New Growth” that discusses this issue of hair and how people are judged about it. The tension between light skinned and dark skinned African Americans is not widely known to everyone. I, for one, did not realize this was such a large issue among the black community. Another participant discussed how this issue is extended into the Latino community. Latinos are discriminated about whether or not they speak Spanish and whether or not they grew up in Mexico.
After seeing this interesting video and listening to the discussion, I feel I learned a lot about different perspectives people were coming from. Everyone wants an identity of where they feel they fit in. We as a community need to overcome this issue of internalized racism because it is something that affects every one of us every day. People make many judgments, but we must be careful to not judge others by their appearance or race. It is important to look at why we do what we do and why we think what we think about others.
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Bob Bullock Texas State History Museum
Many various groups and leaders displayed great ambition through the exploration of new land which is now Texas. The Aztecs and Incas were Mexican ethnic groups that showed their ambition by sending ships filled with gold and silver back to Spain. They were persistant conquerors of the new land and were loyal to their home nation by sending back the riches they found. In the 1500s, ambitious Spanish explorers traveled to the area what is now Texas and led numerous expeditions to this precious land throughout the 16th century. Many Native Americans inhabited the nation and the area that is Texas. The coastal Indians, located on the coast of Texas, discovered the survivors of the Panfilo de Narvaez expedition. These survivors were the first Europeans to set foot in present day Texas near Galveston Island in 1528. Thousands of native people lived here for 11,000 years before Europeans arrived in Texas. Many different groups co-existed in this area with a variety of languages, customs, and beliefs. This diversity epitomizes the cultural melting pot and freedom that is the symbol of America. Spaniards entered Texas in 1528 in hopes of conquering land. The Karankawa Indians were another group of Native Americans that inhabited the territory and lived along the bay shores. They were very ambitious in the way they adapted to a way of life for survival. These Indians traveled in groups of 40 to 50 to take advantage of seasonal foods. They ate fish and shellfish in the fall and winter, searched for pear fruits and mesquite beans in the spring and summer, and hunted buffalo whenever possible.
Other prominent leaders in Texas history demonstrated great courage that led Texas to where it is today. LaSalle traveled across the Atlantic in 1684 to 1685 and led a small fleet that stopped in the Caribbean. Several men deserted here to settle the land. The Caddo and Europeans each courageously believed they would dominate the Texas territory for centuries; however, both were wrong. Stephen F. Austin prevailed as a leader after Mexico gained independence from Spain in 1821. He worked tirelessly to survey and map thousands of acres to benefit what is now our great state. He showed great courage as he helped develop and fought for our state. By 1836, the year he died for Texas, Austin had administered 4 grants and approximately 1,000 families had settled in Texas. The first battle of Adobe Walls, which occurred in 1864, resulted from attacks on white settlers and was one of the largest battles between US soldiers and Indians. This battle marked the beginning of the end of the plains tribes because of the leaders’ courage and bravery. Many other battles and events along the timeline of Texas history display great leadership and the courage to fight for the independence and freedom of our state. Some of these include the Treaty of Medicine Lodge in 1867, the attack on Salt Creek Prairies in 1871, the Red River War, the second battle of Adobe Walls in 1874, and the Battle of Palo Duro Canyon in 1874. Many leaders demonstrated great courage, persistence, and bravery throughout these events.
The movie “Star of Destiny” gave me further insight into the leaders of Texas’ history. Many courageous and daring leaders like William Travis were pointed out as symbols of the Texas spirit. Sam Houston was general of the Texas army and a great leader in the fight for Texas' independence from Mexico. Many leaders attempting to conquer land such as De Vaca, Coronado, and La Salle all had great perseverance to gain the land they wanted. The movie explained how in many battles, brave men stood up even against almost impossible odds to fight for our great state of Texas. We are so fortunate to have the land, freedom, and opportunity for which our pioneers fought. Today, we live in a place with the advantages of a civilized and free country, and much of this was gained through great hardship and sacrifices by our leaders. The cowboys were another group to prevail in Texas. They epitomized great qualities of leaders through their persistence in settling and did not even think about quitting or giving up. When a great storm destroyed the city of Galveston and many were killed, instead of abandoning the city, the citizens worked together to rebuild the city and built a wall 12 feet high to prevent future water damage. In the twentieth century, Texans began to take the lead in industry, arts, politics, and science. Many leaders in Houston were able to put the first man on the moon. "Star of Destiny" enforced “the Texas spirit belongs to everyone.” I agree with this quote and believe we need to take full advantage of it.
Experiencing the Bob Bullock museum and watching the movie “Star of Destiny” gave me a greater understanding about the place we live today and the many leaders who contributed to the history of Texas. I hope to one day have the ambition, courage, bravery, and persistence that all these leaders humbly exemplified through their great accomplishments. As “Star of Destiny” states, “The Texas adventure is now our adventure,” so we must rise to the challenge to influence our society in a positive way such that all these leaders did for us. We are the future of our great state of Texas.
*first picture: Bob Bullock Texas State History Museum
*second picture: Native Americans that populated the territory
*third picture: LaSalle
*fourth picture: Stephen F. Austin
*fifth picture: Battle of the Alamo
*sixth picture: Sam Houston
*seventh picture: first man on the moon
*eigth picture: state of Texas
Alice and College Life
Alice then proceeds to follow a rabbit and goes down a long, dark rabbit hole. She feels scared and doesn’t know how far the fall is or what to expect at the bottom of the hole. I felt dazed and confused much like Alice when I first arrived at the campus of the University of Texas. The campus felt so big and there were so many people. I didn’t know how I was going to find my way around the massive campus, and I didn’t know many people coming to UT. In Dodgson’s Oxford, Dougill states, “in the early stages of her time in Wonderland Alice is distraught and disoriented: she feels lonely, longs for her cat” (781). I feel many college students, including myself, feel this way at the beginning of college. I felt lonely in such a large campus, and at times I miss my friends and family back home.
*first picture: Alice in Wonderland
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
LBJ Library
One leader I learned about was Roosevelt, shown to the left. He was a great president to our country as he demonstrated great American interest and strength. He dispatched the Great White Fleet in order to show that American navy had great strength that could operate globally. Another leader that I admire for his perseverance is Thomas Edison. He had great impact on the nation with his inventions of the phonograph and incandescent lamp with carbon filament. He was a pioneer in motion pictures and developed the forerunner of talking films. His hard work and determination improved technology in one of many steps to get our media to what it is today. Charles Lindbergh, a pioneer aviator, succeeded in making the first nonstop flight between New York and Paris, which symbolizes the courageous spirit of a restless and daring time. His bravery is what helped contribute to great accomplishments in our aviation world. Ernest Hemingway, pictured on the right, is another great leader who is known for his writing about his generation in a crisp, muscular style. Through his hard work, he made an impact on our society and is known to many as a brilliant new novelist in a bountiful period of American literature. George Herman “Babe” Ruth was a great leader on the baseball diamond. He is known as New York Yankees’ “Sultan of Swat” because he captivated the American public with his attitude and ability on the diamond. He set many records such as hitting 60 home runs in a single season and 714 during his career. Through his great perseverance, he is a role model and leader to many people even still today. Herbert Hoover was another president of our country in 1928. One of his great accomplishments was directing a program to feed the impoverished post war Europe. This shows his great compassion for others, even globally. Lady Bird Johnson proved to be a great leader when she ran the Congressional office while LBJ was in service. She worked hard while her husband was serving. Lady Bird's home is displayed to the left. Dwight Eisenhower was another leader in the library that stuck out to me for his perseverance as a WWII leader as well as the president of America during the 1950s. Dr. Jonas Salk was a very influential doctor during these years. He developed a polio vaccine that brought an end to the rampant polio that swept the nation. Salk’s perseverance helped improve the quality of life for millions by preventing this terrible disease. Rosa Parks is another leader during this time because she was a great step to overcoming racial segregation. She protested the city’s segregation policy by refusing to give her bus seat to a white passenger. I admire Rosa Parks for her perseverance to stand up for what she believes in. Martin Luther King Jr. was also a dominant figure in breaking the segregation barrier. He also persevered for something he believed in even though society was against it. He was a leader to the black citizens and launched a bus boycott. A picture of Martin Luther King Jr. is displayed on the right.
Monday, November 5, 2007
The Tower Garden
Since I have been in college, my life seems to be filled with much class, studying, meetings, and various other responsibilities. It seems I am always busy, but it is very nice to be able to visit a peaceful place like Turtle Pond by the tower to relax and forget reality for a little while. It was very interesting to me to read about the history of such a calming place on our campus. I walk by this pond going to class amongst the thousands of students hurrying to their next class, but I have never realized how great of a history it has. I thought it was interesting to learn that this pond is a memorial dedicated to the victims of a shooting on campus. “Landscape architect Eleanor McKinney and visual artist Jill Bedgood combined to produce the redesign of the Tower Garden, a tree-covered grassy area north of the university’s landmark tower” (642). To learn about the great thought and emotion put into such a seeming simple place was incredible to me. That is one of the great things about nature to me. As we rush through our busy lives, everything seems so structured and organized and planned. However, when we are able to take the chance to retreat to a place of nature like a garden, it is so calming and soothing because of its lack of structure. Everything seems to fit with each other in a random manner. Another great thing about places like Turtle Pond is that everyone has a different perspective. Everyone comes from different backgrounds and has different stresses at the time. So, when visiting a garden, different aspects may stick out more or relate to a person. Landscape architecture can have such symbolic meanings that mean different things to different people. For instance, the Turtle Pond has symbolism. On the north side of the pond the objects are represented by the words violence, chaos, and loss to illustrate “the tragedy and loss that one experiences with an even like the Tower shootings. As healing occurs, one moves to reflection, solace, and hope, the objects on the south side of the pond” (642). Everyone experiences pain and tragedy in their lives, but these mean different things to people. Reflection and hope can mean different things as well.
A reflection of the Tower Garden
Gardening has been a hobby in my mother’s life that she has passed to me. Gardening as well as visiting gardens can allow a person soothing relaxation. I remember many times throughout my childhood where my family spent Sunday afternoons working in the yard. While my dad and brother would mow the lawn, my mom and I would be busy in the garden. Planting flowers was such a fun experience for me. It was hard work, but it brings back great memories. It was a time for everything else in the world to go away and a chance for my mom and I to talk and grow close. She taught me many things in our garden, not only about gardening but things to apply to my life. I always loved the reward of planting bright colorful flowers in our garden. I feel landscaping like this gives such a homey feeling to our house and brightens up our yard.
These flowers remind me of the many times I planted flowers with my mom in our garden at home.
Gardens may seem like simple areas in our world that grow various plants, fruits, or vegetables, but they really are so much more. Gardens are a place to relax and enjoy. Gardens can provide a small way to escape from reality even for a few seconds. It provides a way for me to put my thoughts into perspective and re-energize to have an influence and be successful. I want my college years to be a time to reflect on my life and truly think about what I want to accomplish in life. Taking the time to step out of my typical, college student life into a relaxing place like the Turtle Pond gives me the chance to do this.
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
College Expectations
The UT tower, a significant part of the UT campus.
I had many expectations of college before coming to Austin. Just like Elizabeth, I “wanted scholarship, new experiences, and freedom from her past self” (834). My expectations of college contained a mix of emotions. I was excited for all the freedom and opportunities given to me. I have gotten the opportunity to be exposed to many different people and experiences. Also, I have the freedom to do what I want. I was also scared about all the responsibility that now lays in my hands. With freedom comes much responsibility. I have to decide when to do what and stay on top of all my schoolwork. I was also nervous about finding my place I would fit in the massive campus. I had many questions when coming to college. Would I “find that place in this city if he could get there?” (817) The campus is filled with so many people, it is easy to feel lost sometimes. I am still looking to find exactly where I fit in. I feel I “suddenly grew older” (817). I am still the same person; I have the same dreams, values, and morals. While I am still the same, I feel that college is such a pivotal point in my life. It is a time for me to become the person I will be for the rest of my life and a time to prepare to be on my own in the outside world.
Monday, October 22, 2007
Motivation from Second Life
At the computer while participating in Second Life conversations.
I learned many things about the skills of reading and writing in completing both of these projects. However, the things I learned from the experience of each project were greatly different because of the different approaches to each project. The things I learned about these important skills changed my motivation to write each project. In the first project, a lot of what I learned about reading and writing was how these skills influenced my mother becoming the successful person she is today. Excelling at these skills helped my mom do well in school and college in order to attain a good career. These skills also aided my mother in being successful raising her children, which she feels is her greatest accomplishment. After participating in Second Life, I realized much more about the skills of reading and writing. These skills not only affect ourselves but the people around us as well. Reading is extremely important to understand others’ ideas. During the conversations in Second Life, I learned that it was important to sometimes stop typing and read what others were saying. This made it easier to feed off each other’s ideas to keep the conversation flowing. Additionally, writing is an extremely important skill in order to express your ideas. When having conversations on Second Life, those with the best writing skills had the easiest time expressing their ideas and contributing to the conversation. Many times, we express our ideas using direct language. With the growing use of technology in today’s world, writing is becoming even more important. When writing, as opposed to speaking, no one can see your use of nonverbal language, such as facial expressions and tone of voice. You must be excellent at writing in order to make sure the reader gets the message you are trying to convey. Previous to this assignment, I thought of reading and writing as skills that just involved one person. As I reflect on our society’s lifestyle, I realize how much we interact with others through reading and writing. In the growing world of technology, we use emails, text messages, websites, and many other sources in which reading and writing are necessary skills to understand and interact with others. Just as in the use of Second Life, our skills of reading and writing affected others’ understanding of our beliefs and also what we all were interpreting the conversation to be. Reading and writing are skills that essentially affect every aspect of our lives. What I learned about reading and writing had an effect on my motivation to write projects one and two. For writing project one, I did not have as great motivation because I felt I already knew much of what my mother had taught me about the skills. On the other hand, when writing project two, I felt I had learned a different side of these skills and was more motivated to express these ideas.
I am in the back left, working on Second Life.
This is a picture of my avatar of my role model, my mother.
The use of discovery learning also had an effect on my motivation to complete the assignments. Project one did not require the use of discovery learning. I knew I had to think about the quality traits of my mother which made her my role model. Then, I interviewed her, reflected on past experiences, and researched for quotes that were fitting to her character. These skills are similar to those I have used on many assignments in the past. I was not as motivated to write project one because, even after my preparation, I did not feel like I learned much about the topic or approach. Project two was immensely different however. Using Second Life was a brand new concept. From creating my avatar to conversing with classmates on this computer game, I had never done anything like it. The role of discovery learning played a big role on motivating me to do project two. I had many feelings throughout this project. At first, I was excited to get to work with and explore a new program for a new approach. I was also a little anxious because I am not that good with new techniques on computers. As I began working on Second Life, I felt frustrated. As I was trying to make my avatar look as close to my mom as I could, it was very frustrating when I knew what I wanted to do, but couldn’t do it. After exploring the program and getting accustomed to working with it, I felt accomplished when I finished creating my avatar. The same type of emotions ran through me when participating in conversation. At first, the conversation seemed to go a little slow because no one really knew what they were doing. The conversation on Second Life was much different than a normal conversation. It was a little confusing at first because everyone was typing at the same time, but then we got the hang of it. I thought it was great that we could see everyone’s role model avatar while conversing, as compared to emails or text messages, because you were able to put a face to each other’s names. By the end of the class, it seemed everyone was comfortable and the conversation flew by quickly. The whole experience overall was enjoyable and satisfying. After succeeding in participating in Second Life, I felt very motivated to complete project two because I had already accomplished a major step of the project.
The first conversation in Second Life about leadership with Edwin Dorn, Beverly Kelly, and Shakespeare. My role, Beverly Kelly, is the avatar in the middle in the purple shirt.
I learned many things about leadership throughout the course of both project one and two. In project one, what I learned about leadership came primarily from my own role model, my mother. In project two, I learned various aspects of leadership through conversing with others’ role models. During our first discussion, the conversation was focused on leadership. My group discussed the definition of leadership as well as important traits of leadership. We decided the qualities that make a good leader depend upon the situation and the people they are leading. Shakespeare states, “Greatness comes from how the people see you.” Different people view leaders in different ways. Another aspect we discussed in detail was the factors that determine great leadership skills. While playing the role of my mother, I asked, “Do you believe leadership skills are based more on genetics or your environment?” After much debating and discussing, our group determined that leadership skills are predominantly based upon one’s environment because “leaders are not born great,” as Edwin Dorn states. After the first conversation wrapped up, I moved on to a different group and discussed the relationship between leadership and diversity. In this conversation, I was in a group with Catherine Crier and Benjamin Franklin. Catherine Crier stated in our discussion that “there are different kinds of leaders in the world because of the diversity.” Since everyone is different in their values and beliefs, there are many different kinds of leaders and followers. We discussed that leaders must adapt to the situation they are dealing with and the different people they are leading. Also, followers must adapt to the style of their leader. We also discussed how leadership has an effect on diversity in our society. Leaders can understand diversity and promote diversity in our world. By bringing people together, new, diverse ideas are encouraged. All of these conversations in Second Life that we participated in were great instances of leadership. We all acted as leaders in our groups because we played the role of a significant leader in our own lives. We were the leaders in the conversation. The general topic was given to us, but it was up to the members in the group to help facilitate and keep the conversation going in the right direction. I felt each member in the conversations played a leadership role by bringing up new topics. By feeding off each others’ ideas, we were able to learn more about others’ views of leadership. I also felt that each of us learned more about our own role model and ourselves. The conversations in Second Life were a great way to converse with others’ role models in order to learn much about leadership in our diverse world. The many aspects of leadership I learned affected my motivation to write project two. I was more motivated to complete this assignment because I felt I had learned much about myself, my role model, my classmates, and my classmates’ role models. I thought this was a fun, new approach.
The second conversation in Second Life about leadership and diversity with Beverly Kelly, Catherine Crier, and Benjamin Franklin. My avatar is the one on the left.
I am in the middle of this picture with the class and Professor Bump.
Motivation comes from many sources and is important when trying to complete any task. My motivation to complete project one was very different from project two because of the widely different approaches. During project one, my only motivation was the typical academic motivation I have to get good grades. Project two, on the other hand, came from different motivation. Because we used a new and different approach, I was more enthusiastic to participate and complete project two, in addition to my typical academic motivation. I felt the use of Second Life was very beneficial in gaining new insight on leadership through interaction with our role models.
This shows the entire class working on computers on Second Life. I am in the top right corner.
Word Count (without quotes): 1,976
All photos are taken from second life and in class.
Tuesday, October 9, 2007
A Reflection of my Role Model
My mother is my role model for many reasons, especially her passion for family. Since I was little, she has expressed such a strong importance and value of family. She has shown me, through her examples, the relationships I want to strive for with my family. She does a great job making our house a home, a safe and comfortable place where we can always express ourselves. She is always there to help anyone in our family and strives for our family to be strong and close. The picture to the right is of my mom and me on my 8th birthday. She gave me a guardian angel that I still have, which illustrates that my mom is always watching and supporting me. She has such an awesome relationship with all of us and keeps our family together, no matter what. I know she is always there for me, and I can call her any time of day or night and she will be there to listen and help me. She shows me through everything she does the fantastic leader and role model she is. She has such a passion for helping others and such strong values that she always sticks to. She spends much of her time taking care of her mother because she can’t do much on her own anymore. I admire this so much because even though it takes time away from my mom’s life, she never complains about it and will help my grandmother with anything she needs. My mom does so much for my family. For instance, she cleans the house, cooks meals, does the laundry, washes the dishes, picks up the house, shops for the things we need, and much more. She chose to end her career when she had children in order to be there and raise us into the individuals we are today. The picture to the left shows my mom taking my brother and me to school. My mom feels that being a mother is her most important job and hopes raising her children is her greatest success. She has put all her time into teaching and raising her children, which can be overwhelming. Oprah Winfrey once said, “The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but significance – and then even the small steps and little victories along your path will take on greater meaning.” [2] My mom follows small steps of raising her children and can see the significance of each small step. She feels that reading and writing were a big part of her achievements. She thinks reading and writing are extremely important for the education of future generations. She wants to pass on her knowledge to her children. When I was younger, I can remember reading books with my mom all the time. My grandma was a special education teacher and believed reading was an extremely important skill. She gave my brother and me numerous books as we were growing up. My parents followed this tradition and read stories to me all the time when I was a child, and they spent so much time teaching and encouraging me to read. My mother also thinks reading is imperative in staying knowledgeable and informed about the world we live in. She also loves to read biographies about successful people with strong family values and how they got to where they are now. A few of the women my mom has read about are Laura Bush, Jackie Kennedy, and Princess Diana. She loves to read about these successful women and strives to attain the qualities she admires in her own role models. My mother believes in strong family values and morals, and I want to follow in her footsteps with the same values when raising my own family.
I also admire my mother as my role model because she exemplifies strong leadership qualities and personality. My mother is such a strong and passionate woman. She is extremely selfless, caring, dependable, honest, responsible, and loving to everyone. The amazing thing about my mother is how much she can do without even showing it. Kenneth Blanchard once said, “The key to successful leadership today is influence, not authority.” [3] My mother displays her positive influence through example, but never just says what she wants to teach. Just like the old saying, “actions speak louder than words.” You can say whatever you want to get across, but your behavior is what will get across and stick in peoples’ minds. We learn imitation at a young age and continue this unconscious habit throughout our lives. The link below shows video that demonstrates how much role models influence children’s lives, and my mom has had a tremendous positive impact on my life. I want to follow in my mother’s footsteps to become the passionate leader she is. I can tell how much reading and writing affect the leader she is today. These important skills are the foundation for who she is today. By learning and excelling in reading and writing, she was able to be successful in school. Therefore, she was able to get accepted to a good college and succeed as a college student at the University of Texas. After graduating from the business school, which is also my dream, my mother went on to achieve a successful career in computer programming. Her career influenced her life, including the people she was surrounded by. My mother feels these skills are also extremely important in order to help with the ability of expressing yourself. By being knowledgeable, it allows you to converse with others and be social with others. Reading and writing enabled my mother to learn much about the world and people in our society, which helped her to see what she wanted to accomplish in life. My mother is a very involved leader in her children’s lives. She volunteered as room mother, Girl Scout leader, den leader, Junior Achievement volunteer, library assistant, and cheer coach. These pictures show examples of how involved she is. Without being a good writer, my mother feels she would not have been able to be as involved in her children’s lives and wouldn’t be as successful in life. Another great quality my mother possesses is being supportive. My mother is always encouraging me and wants the best for me. “A leader takes people where they want to go. A great leader takes people where they don’t necessarily want to go, but ought to be,” Rosalynn Carter explained. [4] My mom does a great job listening to me, giving me the best advice she has to offer, and supporting me in whatever decisions I choose. My mom illustrates that “gifted leadership occurs where heart and head – feeling and thought – meet.” [5] She thinks hard about her decisions and puts much thought and emotion into leading and helping others. I highly admire my mom’s strong leadership qualities, and I will continue to strive to achieve these same qualities to help my future.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpH8GoTgUqo
My mother also exemplifies my passion and leadership vision in religion. She has always emphasized the importance of Christianity in our family. Through much reading, she has taught me so much about the religion of Christianity and why it is so important. She teaches me about living through Christ through her example. She always sets a great example of living as a true Christian. Going to church every Sunday has always been a tradition in our family. My mom encouraged me to grow spiritually through the sacraments of Baptism, First Communion, and Confirmation. She has encouraged me to stay involved in the church and in religion. She shows by example because she was a teacher in religion class. The importance of God and religion has a strong impact on my mother’s life. For instance, my mother can relate to how “the various parts of her life intersected, and how crafting a plan to make this dream a reality could be not only motivating but inspiring.” [6] She has faced many difficult situations throughout her life, and her faith in God has always proved to help her through. For instance, my mother’s brother was murdered when she was in her twenties. He was coming out of work one evening and was jumped and beaten to death. He was only 33 years old and had a wife and three young children. It was such a tragedy that devastated my family. With a strong faith in God, my mother and the rest of my family were able to get through this terrible circumstance. My mother’s faith in God through the good times and bad have helped shape who she is and affected every aspect of her life. My mother believes religion keeps society in control and out of chaos. Religion gives people motivation in their lives to do the right thing. Having strong faith has always been an important part of my life, which is largely from my mother’s influence on me. I hope to continue to grow in my faith and spiritual journey as my mother has. Her value of religion is one thing I greatly admire of her. John Quincy Adams has said, “If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader.” [7] This quote accurately describes my mom’s influence on me. My mother has inspired me so much to continue to achieve my goals and become a better person. My mom is supportive of my goals, such as my goal of getting into UT, shown to the left. She is such a true leader in my life and such a great role model for me to look up to. My mom is a righteous person and has such strong faith in God, which is one of the many reasons why I admire her as my role model.
My mom’s passion for family, leadership traits, and religious vision greatly reflect the passion and leadership I hope to embody. Role models can be inspirations to us when times get rough, and this can help us as individuals to admire our role model’s character traits. It is so important to have role models for inspiration to keep improving ourselves. My mom has been such a strong influence on my life, and I look up to her and hope to be more like her for so many great reasons.
1. Friedman, Edwin H. ”Wisdom Quotes” http://www.wisdomquotes.com/cat_leadership.html
2. Winfrey, Oprah “The Quotations Page” http://www.quotationspage.com/subjects/dreams/
3. Blanchard, Kenneth “Wisdom Quotes” http://www.wisdomquotes.com/cat_leadership.html
4. Carter, Rosalynn “Wisdom Quotes” http://www.wisdomquotes.com/cat_leadership.html
5. Goleman, Daniel “Primal Leadership: Realizing the Power of Emotional Intelligence” Explore U.T. Course Anthology page 62
6. Goleman, Daniel “Primal Leadership: Making Leaders” Explore U.T. Course Anthology page 66
7. Adams, John Quincy “Wisdom Quotes” http://www.wisdomquotes.com/cat_leadership.html
8. All photos are from the author